Pilot Boy Is Starting to Man Up!

So I've written about a guy that I've referred to as "pilot boy".

This is a guy who has sent up quite a few red flags.  A guy who, when we initially met via an on-line website, lead me to believe that he's a pilot when he's in fact a flight attendant.   A guy who has, on more than one occasion, made plans to spend time with me in Chicago on one of his lay-overs but then cancelled said plans.  A guy who I noticed had a couple pictures on the profile of his Facebook page with a woman he was especially cozied up to who he finally admitted that he had been in a "long term" relationship with but with whom he has recently broken up with.  A guy that, in the time we've known each other (i.e. been talking via phone, text, Skype and FaceTime), I should have run far and wide from.

But we actually had a good forty-five minute conversation tonight.  He actually manned up and, when I asked a few fairly pointed questions in the interest in knowing the "real him", he answered honestly confirming what I had already surmised / picked up from bits and pieces of various conversations we've had previously that had hinted at some things.  I actually feel like I learned a few things about him and that he may be on the way to manning up and sharing his real self!  I still have my reservations and don't want to fully trust him but I think he's finally on the right track!

It's craziness I tell you!